If I can give you some advice friend, you are looking in the wrong places.
A nightclub is the worse possible place to look for woman. If you just want one night stands then sure, browse the software but if you are looking for a possible mate or a relationship then have a good friend introduce you to someone or go to a coffee shop or something.

Somewhere were neither of you are intoxicated and putting up a front, where you can be yourself and actually talk over all the noise. I met my wife through my brother. he simply brought her along when he visited me at home one night and the 2 of us got talking and presto, 2 months later we started dating, 3 years later we got engaged and later this year we are getting married. No rush :)

Concerning women being drawn to bad boys. I guess it starts as a basic need to be with someone that can protect her but later he turns that aggression on her. Its a systematic process of degradations. She later feels incompetent and he manipulates her life in such a way, that she believes she is dependent on him and got good enough for anyone else. I have see countless examples of this and its always the same. Worse part is, if you interfere and give him a good dose of his own medicine, she will either attack you or file charges of assault against you. Weird how that happens.....

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Commissar

...What sort of shallow women are you referring to in your blog???

What you have stated is very easily rather insulting to any decent and proper woman, so lessen 1: You WON'T get a 'real' woman with your attitude.

Fact 2: Those women whom guys tell they have tons of money and a big car, I bet 3/4 of them are aged 14-17 and they're out to have a good time with a cute guy, if he was swearing at them in russian, chances are they's still take him home.

Fact 3: I think you have a dilusional perception of women in anycase. Learn who you are yourself and try loving and accepting yourself before you can even think of engaging in a relationship with another person.

Fact 4: If what I said annoys you, then that should be the answer to your question in itself!

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Equalizer

DO some sport, go out to functions be talkative in town.. you could meet your mate anywhere..:)

IKeep your eyes open and keep smiling and dont seem to desperate..:)

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Mistery

I read your replies to the car guard story`s now.. If I met a guy and I found out he broke into people`s houses for fun I would change my name and leave the planet...

HOw can you expect to meet someone decent with a good heart if you seem to only want to scare people and fraek them out.. I find it cruel to exploit peoples fears.. no matter your intelligence or boredom

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Mistery

If you see yourself as the better person.. FOrgive the bully`s from school ...I was also bully and treated like crap... and It still hurts if someone says something Nasty that reminds me of those days.. but No way will I give Power to those loosers.. They have no impact on my life anymore.. Not one little bit.. ANd honestly speaking I have seen many again during the years and I can nt say they have easy lives.. So Eeyore.. If you want to be loved and accepted by someone.. Forgive the people that hurt you in the past.. be brave enough to walk away from nasty things and be the person you see in your heart.!!!

I would offer to meet up one day and maybe help you.. but i`m scared cause of all the things you have mentioned on womf...

Diont you see, what you give is what you will get in return.. embrace positivity peace and love!!!

And Yes I am a bit of a naive hippie but i believe deep down we all have some good in us.. we should just choose to bring it out and not the ugly!!!
hope that helps a bit..:)

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Mistery

even though you say you now bully the bullies, they are still the ones that have control over your life because of the hate in your heart that you carry for them.. which takes away the possibility of love in your life.

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by Mistery

Man , dont get me wrong , I have seen movies about people and for some reasons you remind me about that people. like silence of the lambs .........
If I may ask in what way do you bully your bully's back ?

Posted 28 Jan 2010 by another

and I actually think you like your way of life...

If I was you I`d see a shrink and try to come to terms with what happened in the past.. Sure Life is a Bi%^ but we can always change and choose a different path in life.

Really Eeyore I wish you all the best for your life and I`m sorry for what happened to you in the past but instead of using your intelligence for nasty things why not give back and make sure something like what happened to you will not happen again..Why not open a school or help group for eppileptics.. and give back love instead of hate..

Just an idea!!!

Good Luck and dont do bad.. Do good it increases the happy vibes of the whole planet

Posted 29 Jan 2010 by Mistery

I feel sorry for you, but dude, You need serious help!

Sort out your own issues before you want to dump it on some poor woman. My opinion anyway.

Posted 29 Jan 2010 by plainandtall

Good Lord, how I hate to partake in another one of these conversations but I'll put my foot down.

Eeyore is none other than our friend Lolocaust, who after talking too much sh#t and incriminating himself in ways he couldn't get out of became so cowardly and thought that changing his name on womf would be the way to go.

Dude, people here weren't born behind a rock. You have serious issues and yo should really do yourself the favour and go check yourself into a mental institution! You are sick and you talk waaaaay to much crap out of which too little is true and most of the stuff you talk about only happens in your mind.

Now don't try and tell me any different because we've had this conversation before - you only get yourself into trouble and haven't got a leg to stand on when push comes to shove. Go fly a kite and stop with your psychotic ramblings on womf. I warn you, I will forward our conversations to anyone here who wants to know exactly what you said to me regarding your twisted little "truths about life".

Your BullSh*t stops HERE!

Posted 29 Jan 2010 by Fatal